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Self Care For Lazy, Sarcastic, Blunt People

Posted on April 11, 2017August 7, 2020by Vanessa Smith
Self Care For Lazy, Sarcastic, Blunt People

I’m not religious, but I like hot cross buns and I finally get paid for public holidays, so I’m all for the Easter long weekend. Which, FYI, is this week!! Four whole days of doing nothing. Which brings me to the topic at hand today…   Self Care For Lazy, Sarcastic, Blunt People   Normally […]

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I’ve Lost All Of My Interests

Posted on January 10, 2017June 8, 2017by Vanessa Smith
I've Lost All Of My Interests

I’ve lost all of my interests at the moment. But I’m ok with it. We had a bit of a crap weekend here. Nothing major went wrong per se, just some bleh feelings and maintenance stuff that needed to happen. At one point we were out for a little while, walking, talking and driving and […]

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My Thoughts About Words Of The Year

Posted on January 9, 2017August 7, 2020by Vanessa Smith
My Thoughts About Words Of The Year

I don’t know if I believe in choosing your word for the year in January. It’s so hard to know what is practical & what will happen & if it will even have any meaning in a month or two.   But maybe this is why I shouldn’t think when I’m tired. For weeks I’ve […]

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Appreciation

Posted on December 26, 2016June 8, 2017by Vanessa Smith
Appreciation

As a somewhat sarcastic person, I find things like appreciation or gratitude hard to write about. It doesn’t mean I Β don’t feel them, but I don’t feel entrely comfortable expressing them the way others bloggers may do.   Appreciation     Doctors I very much appreciate that my doctor took the time to really talk […]

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My Morning Routine

Posted on December 2, 2016August 7, 2020by Vanessa Smith
My Morning Routine

If you’ve ever followed me on social media, you’ve probably seen me complain about commuting. In my own defense, that’s ok, because I’ve had nearly a 3 hour commute daily for MANY MANY years.   My Morning Routine     For me, mornings start early. That’s because train station car parks fill up early. Over […]

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The Acceptance Myth

Posted on September 26, 2016August 7, 2020by Vanessa Smith

If you believe the fluffy type of posts you see on Pinterest, accepting yourself is the key to all salvation. Or something. If you accept who you are, you will be happy. If you accept that you can’t change others, that you can’t stop the sun from spinning etc… happy. Right?   The Acceptance Myth […]

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My Word for 2016

Posted on August 5, 2016August 7, 2020by Vanessa Smith

I was walking through a shopping centre, heading for the toilet block. (Why am I telling you this? Because ideas don’t come at glamorous times. They come while living life. A self retreat & all that Pinterest worthy stuff is great, and can help, but it’s not the only way things can happen.)   I […]

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My Worst Habit

Posted on July 18, 2016August 7, 2020by Vanessa Smith

Introspection central! Fair warning πŸ™‚   My Worst Habit     Others can probably see our own worst habits easier than we can. Or maybe we just like to hide our worst things from ourselves because that way we don’t have to think about changing them.   Either way, like most problems (if you can […]

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My Biggest Roadblock

Posted on April 18, 2016August 7, 2020by Vanessa Smith
my biggest roadblock

My Biggest Roadblock   Right now, me.   I feel off-balance. But then, everything has been off-balanced for a month or so. Being run down, Ben being in hospital a few times, having lots of tests, in peak period at work, uni work due…I don’t want to say I’ve been struggling but something has also […]

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Do We Make Things Harder Than They Really Are?

Posted on March 17, 2016March 3, 2018by Vanessa Smith
Do We Make Things Harder Than They Really Are?

Do We Make Things Harder Than They Really Are?   This is something I’ve been wondering for a while now. I know, I have a problem with getting frustrated about the pace of my life and then taking on too much, and then burning out. I totally will not mention right now the new blog […]

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