I was doing a survey on ADHD late last year and one question asked if challenges with attention had any positives. My reply: Hyperfocus can be seen as a positive in certain capitalistic conditions. But it is not financially compensated appropriately. It is also effectively contraindicated with my other condition (ME/CFS) where cognitive […]
Health
Three out of three
For years now I have struggled to get three out of three – the right work, the right pay, the right location. As my MECFS has gotten worse (beyond the point where working is wise) it now costs me so deeply to work that not getting three out of three makes me angry. It […]
Work for yourself, it’s like SO easy
This article on The Conversation mentions disability, but only insofar as it’s a protected status; it’s technically illegal to discriminate against us. I say technically because we all know how common it is to be on the receiving end of discrimination in the workplace. A common refrain will be that you should work for […]
Advocacy: foundational support via Emerge
In late 2024 a few organisations were doing surveys regarding the creation of foundational supports. As someone who needs supports but presently gets no supports, I filled in as many as I could. I found my words in one particular report (this one). When I first read the report, I got really excited because […]
Needing supports vs receiving supports
A while ago I responded to this Substack post. Particularly, this part: “It means learning to use supports (whether that’s a mobility aid, a meal delivery service, or a friend helping you with errands) before you absolutely need them.” My response: I fully agree with this. The challenge is when you need […]
“It’s easier to call…”
It’s time, my fellow humans. It’s time to acknowledge that easier just means more convenient for you. The prevalence of synchronous communication is becoming an issue for me. People need to stop treating asynchronous conversation needs as second class citizens. This is most obvious in a customer service context, where asynchronous needs are met […]
Chasms
I feel these chasms often and don’t feel like they are talked about much. The chasm of disability vs chronic illness. The chasm of always having had support vs never having had support. The chasm of a condition that can be supported vs one that can’t. The chasm of a researched condition vs an […]
You need to not suck
This is a very real accomodation need. There’s an unrelenting frustration when other people slack off and make us (chronically ill people, especially people with energy limiting conditions) repeat work. When the government loses paperwork and you have to repeat it. When a colleague gets something wrong and you have to fix it. […]
Targeted Foundational Supports Advocacy
I recently became concerned about plans for Targeted Foundational Supports. This is not a new concern (I’ve outlined things in the past), just a more specific one. This concern was mainly raised through the application form for this focus group, because I read this as implying that Targeted Foundational Supports may be ONLY Thriving […]
Money is a support
A note I sent myself in June 2025… On a bad day like today, appointments in the morning, my partner unable to move and can’t care for me, money would be the ideal support to give me a healthy, prepared lunch. But no one wants to talk about independence in this way. They […]